DEAR ABBY: Several members of my husband’s family let us down badly by not attending our daughter’s wedding. They had various work and other family obligations near the date of our event. “Save the date” cards had been sent out six months prior, but we were apparently lower on their priority list.

Dear Abby, after several of my husband's relatives didn't attend our daughter's wedding, I decided to snub them with no cards this holiday, but my husband went behind my back and sent them cards anyway.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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I was traveling for work, he bought cards, printed a letter with pictures, signed it from both of us and sent it

"I expressed to my husband my desire to not send holiday cards this year because I no longer feel good about these family members."

Several members of my husband’s family let us down badly by not attending our daughter’s wedding. They had various work and other family obligations near the date of our event. “Save the Date” cards had been sent out six months prior,